State of Origin Captain
If you're not throwing a party and just going out for dinner, then I don't see a problem at all tbh. Especially if you ask people not to bring gifts. Depending on budget, maybe you could throw a couple of dollars on the bar if you feel bad about it?Is it a faux pas to ask for people to 'pay their own way' at an engagement dinner?
The missus wants to have a party - but I'd rather save the $$ for honeymoon.
She suggested we just invite people to a dinner and ask them to pay for their own food & drinks.
I always thought that was frowned upon - but I really have NFI.
Also, what do you mean by you "don't have the facilities to throw a party"? Space is the issue I assume?