This is my thing too and which I also said earlier. Of all the ones we got done for and keep getting pinged for each week, im sure there is someone not 10m or a hand on the ball etc.
But imo you can find that in 90% of tackles if you really wanted, so game situation/scenarios then come in to play, and some are ignored, which leads to the wtf moments where it feels like we are being destroyed by the whistle.
Momentum kicks in, everything we do looks like an attempt to slow them down, everything they do is at rapid pace. Try slowing them down at all, and even though its still a fast play the ball in terms of average for the game, it looks slow because the team without momentum is hanging on for dear life.
So we end up being the team that gave away majority of the set restarts, AND the team with the slower play the ball, which is pretty shit.