I'm all for giving anyone a second chance ... and it's not like he is a repeat offender, this is his first off-field incident.
unfortunately like your tactics on the field taking the moral high-ground for off-field incidents is doomed for failure on the field.
Zero tolerance doesn't work in the NRL, as the NRL don't back clubs stances. if we sack Mam, it'll take him about 5 minutes to find another club. advantage rival club!
give him a decent penalty (fines / suspension) but keep him out of the hands of our rivals. of course if he was a repeat offender or becomes a repeat offender, then that's a different story