As much as I am loathe to link to this stuff anymore, it looks like somebody has been a little loose with the truth.
Lodge denies ex-girlfriend assault claims
BRISBANE footballer Matt Lodge has maintained claims he has never assaulted “any woman” as it emerged ex-partner Charlene Saliba told lawyers that he had never hit her and called him her “best friend”.
The Broncos prop has responded to explosive allegations from Ms Saliba, who claimed that she feared for her life during their two-year relationship that allegedly included verbal abuse, stalking, intimidation and physical attacks.
She has stood by her claims in The Sunday Mail saying: “To be clear, Lodge hit me before a witness and nothing in the unsigned statement changes that. These are absurd and hurtful accusations given what we know about the nature of domestic violence. They also show a lack of understanding of abusive relationships.”
But in correspondence to Lodge’s friend in 2015, Ms Saliba declared she had made a “huge mistake” by taking out an AVO against the prop and begs for him to contact her.
Lodge, who was cleared to return to the NRL in November, has broken his silence on the ordeal.
In an unsigned written statement by Ms Saliba sent to Lodge’s lawyer, the Sydney schoolteacher says: “In summary, Matthew Lodge has never hit or punched me”.
The statement was dated January 12, 2016, five months after Ms Saliba was interviewed by NSW police following an alleged assault by Lodge on August 20, 2015.
A text message also was sent from Ms Saliba to Lodge’s friend on September 8, 2015 – almost three weeks after the alleged attack. In it, Ms Saliba pleads for the friend to ask Lodge to contact her, saying: “I’m struggling. I miss him. I’ve made a huge mistake. I wish I could take it all back. I don’t know what to do. I just want my best friend back.”
Ms Saliba was reported on Sunday that she was caught in a cycle of domestic violence with Lodge, but the Broncos forward yesterday claimed she repeatedly contacted him for two years after their break-up.
“I stand by my belief that I have never hit any woman,” he said. “I stand by my version of events. I told the police I never hit her and in her statement, she says that I never hit her.
“She took out an AVO (Apprehended Violence Order) against me, but still kept contacting me. I told her she shouldn’t be contacting me.
“I just want us to both move on with our lives. Our relationship ended three years ago. I now have a partner and a young son. We are happy and it’s all pretty embarrassing for us. I don’t support domestic violence in any way.”
Lodge is adamant that he does not want to publicly shame Ms Saliba.
“I never wanted to get into a public slanging match with Charlene,” he said. “But the truth is two years after we broke up, she was still texting me and calling me. I asked her to get on with her life.”
Court documents show that on August 20, 2015, police arrested Lodge and charged him with eight domestic violence-related offences against Ms Saliba, including common assault, stalking/intimidation and damaging property.
Police obtained an AVO on Ms Saliba’s behalf. In May, 2016, Lodge pleaded guilty to one of the charges of common assault in Parramatta Local Court in Sydney.
Asked why he pleaded guilty to assault when he publicly claims he never hit Ms Saliba, Lodge said: “The truth is I didn’t want to plead guilty. I argued with my barrister about it. I denied all eight charges and my legal advice was to plead guilty to the one charge which, according to my barrister, was on the minor end of the scale.
“My barrister said if I didn’t plead guilty it would drag on for a long time. I couldn’t afford to keep paying legal bills. I was 18 years old so I just wanted it over and done with so that’s what I did.”
In her 2016 statement, Ms Saliba says she twice tried to amend her statement in a Facts Sheet filed with Blacktown police, but was denied.
She disputed that Lodge pulled her hair and said he did not rip out an earring as originally claimed. In the statement, Ms Saliba says she felt “pressured” by police interviewers “to agree to have experienced immediate pain” following the alleged attack in August 2015.
In relation to an alleged assault, Ms Saliba wrote: “Matthew did slap my right side of the face, with the intention for it to be light, which it was and it did not mark. During the interview (with police), I was prompted and encouraged to remember and describe the feeling.”
He described the slap as “sarcastic” and said no harm was intended. In an appeal in September, 2016, the NSW District Court recorded no conviction against Lodge and gave him a two-year good behaviour bond.