I don't know about you all but my mum, or most decent mum's, wouldn't be raving on about my obligation to take care of her and the family if I was in a very high paying job or even if I won the lotto. It's called UNCONDITIONAL love for that reason.
Sounds like a bit of a similar scenario to ponga and his dad these days. Alarm bells were ringing when fifita said it was "part of their (broncos) job" to bail out their employee from a Bali gaol cell...no, no it is not, who gave you that idea I wonder??.....