Donald Garner
NRL Player
- Feb 5, 2017
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After reading your post, my silly brain added the ‘Law & Order’ sound effect, “deh-deh”!
Lol I love that show. Although my post is based on facts not fiction lol
After reading your post, my silly brain added the ‘Law & Order’ sound effect, “deh-deh”!
I find this incredibly short sighted. You'd protect someone who made your life miserable, and doesn't seem to learn from her mistakes, just because she happened to push you out of her womb?Even if my mum was a meth head who constantly got me in trouble I'd still go to the ends of the earth to defend her and risk my entire career for it too.
It's all done now, I still think a 4 week ban and 20k fine is at least double what is reasonable and it's purely and simply an over reaction because of the horror NRL off season. If the same incident happens a year earlier he gets a fine and a talking to. In comparison people actually risking lives drink driving, get no suspension but instead a character reference.
In the end, whatever, I just hope he learns a lesson from it all and his family learn a lesson from it too.
You're arguing against a position I never made. If she pushed me out of the womb and threw me to the wolves, then I'd rightly have no care for her.I find this incredibly short sighted. You'd protect someone who made your life miserable, and doesn't seem to learn from her mistakes, just because she happened to push you out of her womb?
That said, I don't know what type of mother she is to Payne, and I'm sure his culture involves very strong blood ties, so I can understand how he would stay silent.
I have zero respect for her though, as she didn't protect her own son. A mother deserves loyalty and respect for being what a parent is supposed to be, not just a DNA donor.
My mother did more for me than I could ever repay, and yet if she got into a destructive spiral she couldn't get out of, all I would be doing by staying silent would be enabling that behaviour, which wouldn't do either of us any good.You're arguing against a position I never made. If she pushed me out of the womb and threw me to the wolves, then I'd rightly have no care for her.
If my mother suddenly fell into a spiral of bullshit I wouldn't abandon her because it was bad for me, I would stand by her all the way even to my own detriment. You can call it short sighted all you want, but that's who I am.
It's not entirely relevant, but my father after marriage got severe seizures which eventually caused him to be disabled and could no longer work, my mother had to work multiple jobs as well as take care of me and my 5 siblings and often would secretly cry herself to sleep because she wouldn't have money for basic stuff like school uniform and would take out loans just to get us to school and have the bare essentials. There's nothing she could do that would make me abandon her now, I owe everything I have to the platform she provided for me to her own detriment without ever complaining about it once.
Now I don't know what Haas' story is but he has his reasons to be loyal to his mother and I won't question them. The club can disagree, some members on BHQ can disagree, but I for one fully agree with what he did for all of the reasons I've stated in this thread. You can even argue his actions were misguided but his intentions, IMO, were absolutely in the right place and I refuse to hold that against him.
Yeah maybe, maybe not. Nothing is black and white, she's obviously got her son to a stage where he is a highly paid professional sportsman, she's obviously got a lot of good qualities. Hypothetically, I'm not going to say I'll support you no matter what but the fact is his mother did get into trouble (allegedly?), and he felt it was best to remain silent to protect her legally or morally, I won't begrudge him for that. I 100% applaud him for doing so, it's not easy and he took a big hit and I have no doubt if he loves his mother enough to do that for her, she obviously has enough respect for him to not put him through this again.My mother did more for me than I could ever repay, and yet if she got into a destructive spiral she couldn't get out of, all I would be doing by staying silent would be enabling that behaviour, which wouldn't do either of us any good.
FTR, I'm not holding it against him. I am holding it against her.
Yes, I am sure he does, and I already said I understand his side, even if believe it is misplaced, judging by the rumours this is not the first or second time it happens.I have no doubt if he loves his mother enough to do that for her, she obviously has enough respect for him to not put him through this again.
Give him the year off. Make him go train and play with his QCUP side after his suspension. Obviously not mature enough to be considered for first grade, plus when we're fully healthy he's struggling to make the 17 anyway.
Not necessarily. If his mum or family are flogs things like driving unlicensed may not be out of the norm, even things like actually reading your mail and paying fees on time are skills that some people just aren't taught by their parents.Is this what happens when you give unproven kids million dollar contracts? I dont think we are going to be seeing him anytime soon.